Should I do it?

About 5 years ago while I was involved in Yahoo and IRC chat I "met"  this girl online.  Her nickname is Naughtygirl, I know the name right there should warn me, at first I thought it was just some cyber request as they used to do back then but I actually started talking to her.  I do know her real name and have spoken on the phone with her before.  She lives about two and a half hours away from me.  Well now she wants to meet in person.  Next weekend she is celebrating her 30th birthday.  She is single with no kids, two dogs, a German Shepard and a chihuahua.  She gave me directions to the club and I checked it out, its a real club.  The kicker, the picture she still has of me from back then I was 5 years younger and 20 pounds lighter.  Would you guys go?  I ussually dont go out with people I meet online.

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Then after that, sure why not? You were in the military before, and you look like a big guy...I'm sure you could probably protect yourself.

Have you seen a picture of her? Your appearance may not be what you need to be worrying about If I were you I would ask her, "Can you send me a recent picture so I know where to spot you in the club?"

Before I met my wife (on AmericanSingles.com), I did alot of online-dating stuff. I met plenty of women online, and went on numerous dates. I have met some really weird women, so be careful

Cyber, checked for her name and the county she lives in nothing.

jsampsonPC, I saw her on webcam a few days ago.  Luckily I dont have one and she is cute which begs another question:  30 and single.  There has to be a catch, my luck isnt that good. 

Before I met my wife, I went on a date with a 32-year old single woman. She was attractive, athletic, etc. Very easy on the eyes. It confounded me, too. Why is such a hot woman single, so late in her life? Turns out, the woman was only interested in sex - which I wasn't. I was actually looking for a sincere life-partner, and she was looking for a quick-lay. Unfortunately for her, she will probably never settle down and start a family. Fortunately for me, I found my wife after mucking through a handleful of weirdos

rjdohnert wrote:

Cyber, checked for her name and the county she lives in nothing.

jsampsonPC, I saw her on webcam a few days ago.  Luckily I dont have one and she is cute which begs another question:  30 and single.  There has to be a catch, my luck isnt that good. 

jsampsonPC wrote:

Before I met my wife, I went on a date with a 32-year old single woman. She was attractive, athletic, etc. Very easy on the eyes. It confounded me, too. Why is such a hot woman single, so late in her life? Turns out, the woman was only interested in sex

Haha. I know where she lives, if anybody is in the Pensacola area and wants to send her flowers She has a dog, likes action movies, and is...um...top-heavy?

Just not my type, my wife is SOOOOO much better

irascian wrote:



jsampsonPC wrote:Before I met my wife, I went on a date with a 32-year old single woman. She was attractive, athletic, etc. Very easy on the eyes. It confounded me, too. Why is such a hot woman single, so late in her life? Turns out, the woman was only interested in sex

You realise you've just set yourself up for a ton of emails along the lines of "Do you happen to still have her contact details?" don't you!

I say goferit.

The worst thing that could happen is you'll have a lame time, and that's not so bad.

But if you don't at least try, you'll never know.

That's how I feel about things, anyway, and it's worked out all right (although I've had some terrible experiences as a result of this philosophy, too).

I'd check it out, though. Even if you don't like her so much, you might meet someone else there, you know?

Just friggin do it.  Who cares.  Worst case she could turn you into next week's soup.  Literally.  But realistically, worst case is you find out you really don't like her.  Best case, the sky is the limit.

Eh, well....Worst case scenario, you get a stalker. A bush-sitter who peeks in your window at night wishing you loved her like she loves you. A crazy-eyed OCD victim who cannot jake your hand without shouting "I love you...you cannot stop out love!"

Of course it could be worse than that, too Best of luck!

I thik the saying goes better to regret something that you have done than to regret something you haven't done lol. Or something along them lines anyway

JasonOlson wrote:

Yeah, you have to be careful with that. To this day, I'm STILL trying to get Rory out of my bushes...

JasonOlson wrote:



jsampsonPC wrote: Eh, well....Worst case scenario, you get a stalker. A bush-sitter who peeks in your window at night wishing you loved her like she loves you. A crazy-eyed OCD victim who cannot jake your hand without shouting "I love you...you cannot stop out love!" Of course it could be worse than that, too Best of luck!

Yeah, you have to be careful with that. To this day, I'm STILL trying to get Rory out of my bushes...

Sven Groot wrote:



JasonOlson wrote: jsampsonPC wrote: Eh, well....Worst case scenario, you get a stalker. A bush-sitter who peeks in your window at night wishing you loved her like she loves you. A crazy-eyed OCD victim who cannot jake your hand without shouting "I love you...you cannot stop out love!" Of course it could be worse than that, too Best of luck! Yeah, you have to be careful with that. To this day, I'm STILL trying to get Rory out of my bushes...

I'd give him some hedge clippers and a shovel and tell him to make himself useful.