I would guess some combination of setting the envelope-from, From:, Sender:, and Reply-To: would generate optimal behavior. The harder question is, what is optimal behavior?
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I would guess some combination of setting the envelope-from, From:, Sender:, and Reply-To: would generate optimal behavior. The harder question is, what is optimal behavior?