I feel it only fair to point out that when most of us see a guy hugging an 'out' gay guy, we tend to make certain assumptions, whether they're correct or not.
Young Irasian of all people! I'm surprised at you that your views are so antiquated.
The natural thought would be for any 'right' thinking person would be 'there is a man who is in touch with his feelings' rather than a member of the 'all-gentleman's disco club'.
As for people thinking I'm a member ... it doesn't bother me, I know my preference and thats all that matters. Us Metro's shall inherit the Earth
... now I'm off to hug a tree ....