And Me !
If you want to find me, I will be the one giving Ian a great big hug !
... and so should you, because he love's them
I feel it only fair to point out that when most of us see a guy hugging an 'out' gay guy, we tend to make certain assumptions, whether they're correct or not.
That is all!
(FX: exit stage left chuckling 'Hah! That should stop any unwarranted threats of namby-pamby hugging')