Get over it. This is a geekfest and last time I looked, geeks are 90+% male.

This reminds me of when I was in the vid-game business and women complained that the games were violent. Well, guess what? The target audience was overwhelmingly male and they loved it.

We don't need to parse our language to accomodate a small minority. The small minority needs to understand that they are a small minority and accept the language.