@Harlequin:FYI Here is how your wife might interpret your post:
You're not going to see negative stuff in this thread...
"I have some negative stuff to say but I'm not going to say it here"
as in the interwebs you have nothing to hide ..
"I have something to hide"
She is also likely to question why all the other niners are posting about their fantastic wives and you are not ...
Be careful out there ... (the real world I mean)